Credibility check on a fellow member....

[suicide_squeeze]

Hello forum members,

I am just doing my due diligence in asking......I have been in a detailed conversation with a fellow member you all most likely have heard from and see post here. He answered my "Items wanted" thread about an Eddie Murray home run ball. The emails started out real promising, but somewhere along the line, they headed a bit South, and became quite questionable in my mind. In fact, I would say they ended up being completely self-serving. I would like to know if I am way off base, or my instincts are correct. I may never know, and may have to just go with my gut feelings in the direction I am comfy with, so I am appealing for a bit of help.

Does anyone here know of Tom Murray, aka GarkoCollector, or has anyone here ever dealt with him before? Any feedback you could provide me into this guy's character would be very welcome and appreciated.

Tom will no doubt see this thread, and I want him to understand I am someone who, after all of our conversations, would just like to be comfortable doing my "homework" before I consider buying a ball that he claims to have access to. If he is legit, he should have no problem at all with this thread.

You can post your comments here......or email me at suicide_squeeze@roadrunner.com if that would make you more comfortable. Any comments I get will be held in the strictest of confidence......you all have my promise on that.

Regards,

Steve

[markize]

Re: Credibility check on a fellow member....

Steve,

First let me say, I have never been involved with a transaction with Tom. We have exchanged several emails, and from what I gather (again, my personal experience), he seems like a stand up guy to me. While this may not help you from a business/purchase standpoint, I hope it gets you started. If you are asking on whether he will deliver an item you pay for, I would lean toward the "yes" side. Good luck.

Mark

[suicide_squeeze]

Re: Credibility check on a fellow member....

Thank you very much for the feedback, Mark.

I just want to say I was divided on whether to even post this question here. I certainly am not in the practice of inviting "drama" to the board, and I don't think it's a noble thing to air out private conversations had off the board site......unless there is something criminal involved (which is not the case here).

I just want to believe that what he has represented to me is real, but the authenticity "value" of it has fallen way short of expectations.......so I was looking for any positive or negative feedback on the guys basic honesty to help me make a decision.

Once again, thanks for the feedback, much appreciated!

Any others?

Regards,

Steve

[flaco1801]

Re: Credibility check on a fellow member....

lets turn the table here a minute... has anybody dealt with suicide squeeze?.. this thread is trouble

[trsent]

Re: Credibility check on a fellow member....

lets turn the table here a minute... has anybody dealt with suicide squeeze?.. this thread is trouble

Wasn't it Billy Martin who was the king of the suicide squeeze?

Wasn't it Jake Taylor who used a suicide squeeze to help The Indians win The Pennant?

[suicide_squeeze]

Re: Credibility check on a fellow member....

lets turn the table here a minute... has anybody dealt with suicide squeeze?.. this thread is trouble

Hey flaco1801........care to explain?

What trouble is there in this thread? You lost me?

I am a collector. I don't sell much at all......unless I am "upgrading".

I sell on ebay under the same name, but not very often. Feel free to check out my feedback.

I was not the one who contacted someone who listed an item they were in search of on the "Items wanted" thread. I was answered. And quite frankly, I think I'm being offered a fake item, because the way the answers to my questions kept coming back ALL just seemed to fit nice and comfortably into the benefit of the guy who contacted me. And, I was sent pictures. The pictures show an item that looks like it has NEVER had contact with a baseball bat, a pitcher's hand, the ground, seats, or anywhere else it supposedly rattled around after Eddie Murray hit it for a home run. The ball, although appearing to be "rubbed up" with some kind of dirt, looks pristene.

I'm just looking for some constructive feedback on the character of the guy mentioned. If you don't have any, then why bother?

Any time you want to step up to the plate and question my integrity, start your own thread. I welcome it.

[flaco1801]

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this is where the trouble starts... now you say you THINK its a fake... you have never seen the ball up close and u have the nerve to say it COULD be fake... just aint right pal.... ive seen plenty of balls that were pristine that went into the stands.. they only change balls every pitch nowadays..

[camarokids]

Re: Credibility check on a fellow member....

Nothing against Tom here....as far as I know he is honest.

But, I would not buy a game used baseball period, unless maybe its MLB authentic, even then who knows......MLB screws up all the time....

Or I might buy one if it is cheap enough, therefor who would bother to fake such an item??? Even then who do you trust?????

How do you know it the said ball it is supposed to be?????

Unless the person is caught on video catching the said ball, even then, how do you know the ball was not swapped?????

Look for something else to spend your money on.

Now if it a hologrammed like they did for Bonds HR run.....then you have some proof.....

Too much room for error and getting burned in this area......

Buy a Eddie Murray game used bat....

[ndevlin]

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lets turn the table here a minute... has anybody dealt with suicide squeeze?.. this thread is trouble

Man, if I responded to somebodies want list and they are questioning my item, I would be really pissed if someone called me out like this.

If you dont want the ball, dont buy it. If you are questioning it, is it really worth buying it, let alone ruining someones reputation as a buyer?

I dont know him or delt with him, but how do you think this makes him look or feel?

The proper thing probably wouldve been to do is paste the picture of the ball so all of us can see, without mentioning who the ball even belonged to. You'd still get your opinions without hurting someones name. If you think its fake, why bother. Look for something you think is real.

[camarokids]

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Nate,
As usual very well said. I agree.

That is why you are/were nominated for the 2008 GUU Award for "Most Likely to Tell It Like It Is" ......

I would like to add, most game used items speak for themselves (I am weary of game used baseballs). Meaning the item is what it is!

Doesn't matter who is selling it.

As long as they ship the item and you receive it.

Then again, just use you credit card on paypal and if you do not receive it file a complaint and/or dispute the charge with your CC company...

[GarkoCollector]

Re: Credibility check on a fellow member....

Steve,
If you dont want the ball, its fine by me. I'd be perfectly happy keeping it. I offered plenty of info on the ball for you, taking great amount of my personal time getting things together for you, which initially was a deal to be between you an a friend of mine that owns the ball. Since we are putting things in the open, I'll put them in the open. I had no idea he would just give me the authority to deal the ball as my own. I told you in advance he had plenty of info that could back up the ball. You seemend fine with all of that.

As far as the ball being "pristine", looking through archives, Murray hit an 0-1 pitch for a HR. The prior pitch was a foul ball. That means it was a new ball put into play. There is a mark on the ball where it was hit, but 1 swing of a bat isnt going to do a terrible amount of damage. If you wanted a "battered HR Ball" then it might have been better to be more specific.

I dont mind the check as I would want to be certain as well, but the provenance on this thing has everything but a video of him getting the ball after it was hit. I have just a few people here that I have issues with, and I am sure they might chime in, but again, I contacted you to deal the ball as something that belonged to a friend.

Should you care to resume talks via email, you know how to reach me. Otherwise, I'm more than happy to buy a UV coated ball holder and put it out for anyone to see. Regardless of who owns it, its bound to be a conversation starter.

Regards,
Tom

[GarkoCollector]

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Man, if I responded to somebodies want list and they are questioning my item, I would be really pissed if someone called me out like this.

If you dont want the ball, dont buy it. If you are questioning it, is it really worth buying it, let alone ruining someones reputation as a buyer?

I dont know him or delt with him, but how do you think this makes him look or feel?

The proper thing probably wouldve been to do is paste the picture of the ball so all of us can see, without mentioning who the ball even belonged to. You'd still get your opinions without hurting someones name. If you think its fake, why bother. Look for something you think is real.

Just to provide a few responses, the ball is from 1985, so theres no MLB hologram sticker on it. I dont know much about getting it authenticated either. Anyone that could lead me on that one, I'd be interested in hearing about it. I do feel like I'm being called out here, and after all of the work I did to get the information on the ball, I'm not sure why my efforts to help a fellow collector are being used against me, but again, it is what it is and I am perfectly happy keeping the ball for myself.

Nothing against Tom here....as far as I know he is honest.

But, I would not buy a game used baseball period, unless maybe its MLB authentic, even then who knows......MLB screws up all the time....

Or I might buy one if it is cheap enough, therefor who would bother to fake such an item??? Even then who do you trust?????

How do you know it the said ball it is supposed to be?????

Unless the person is caught on video catching the said ball, even then, how do you know the ball was not swapped?????

Look for something else to spend your money on.

Now if it a hologrammed like they did for Bonds HR run.....then you have some proof.....

Too much room for error and getting burned in this area......

Buy a Eddie Murray game used bat....

This was my issue. Why fake an Eddie Murray ball? Why not a Bonds, Pujols, McGwire or something high end? I agree that holograms help a lot, but for a ball from 85, I dont think theres much I can do with that. I take no offense at all to your questions/concerns.

[ultimetfan]

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Hi Guys,

For what its worth, I have dealt with Tom, and he was professional, forthright, and a pleasure to deal with.

If you have a question about the item, you should pass, no matter who the seller is. Just my .02

[tigerdale]

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Just for what its worth....I have multiple home run baseballs that are MLB authentic....some are very rubed up & used w/ marks, others look barely even rubbed up.....they all very greatly.

[suicide_squeeze]

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Tom,

Yes, you can keep the ball.

You can keep it, because it isn't what your friend is telling you it is.

You know, the friend who magically kept coming up with the info that I was asking about?

The friend who didn't want to part with it?

The friend who then, was considering it after I threw a figure out there?

The same friend that then, went from not wanting to part with it, to then just "giving it to you to deal with it as you wished"? Hmmm....

The VERY same friend who wasn't sure what YEAR it was hit, then miraculously came up with remembering the day, the game, everything, because he seemed to remember about a "fender-bender" the same day, so he WOULD in fact be able to pinpoint the home run......keeping our negotiations intact.......? Nice touch......

But the best kept rolling in. Hell, once we had the "letter of authenticity" agreed on that he would "eventually" put together with all the facts, and how he was a vendor working at the games (but earlier he was an "Orioles apprentice who was at the game sweeping the stairs of the bullpen, not a payrolled employee".....wow, quite a jump!), then I asked that all he needed to do what have it "notarized".

You asked how that worked, and I explained it to you. Suddenly, your friend is (just after recently moving, and unboxing everything which is why it took so long to get the pictures......) entering the hospital. Seems he miraculously has been stricken with a serious flare-up of MS. So I explain to you that, of all places, hospitals have notary publics on site every day, so it wouldn't be a problem to print the letter that, somehow, between coming up with ALL of the answers I needed, then compiled a letter with all the facts (with one MAJOR mistake on it, I might add), then ends up in the hospital with MS, and when I require a notarized signature, he suddenly deteriorates to a point "He can't even sign his name now".


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