Some of you may be aware of this initial post:
A comment was made in this post, that I felt was very insensitive. Actually hit a nerve with me, because I have experienced this same type of comment that affected me in another forum.
I made a post indicating that the person may want to possibly consider not making insensitive comments as they did. Didn't get nasty about it, just made the suggestion. A few others agreed. One person made a comment that I thought was more directed in a negative way at that person who posted the comment, so I asked to please not to do so, and that the post made I'm sure wasn't made with negative intent and just made by using a bad choice of words.
My wife and I went to dinner. When I got home, the comments were deleted, including the insensitive comment made by the person in question.
I'm not sure if any other comments were made after my last post, that resulted in this, but the comment by that person, and some following, shouldn't have been deleted. This is ridiculous!
What should have occurred is the person who made the insensitive comment, should have been given the opportunity to apologize that they meant no harm, and that should have been the end of that.
Instead, moderators delete the comments in the post that I feel were warranted and valid. If done my anyone else, it would have been different and we all know that!!!!
I continuously watch people attack each other, and many posts remain. Why in this case was it different? Well, I'm sure those who read the initial post understand why.
Totally unfair! Many of us have complained how this forum has changed, and many good people have left. Unfortunate! But it's situations like this that many get upset about.
If GAMEUSEDINVERSE feels the need to delete this post, then ban me, as I do not want to be a part of a forum that conducts themselves in this manner.
If I am banned, thank you all for the knowledge an experience you have shared with me.
If not for you, I would never have learned that my 1996 Rawlings bat wasn't legit; or I would never have the opportunity to obtain Arod's 1st Career Grand Slam Bat; and so on.
There have been members in the forum who have passed away, and for me, that comment was inappropriate and insensitive! And by that thread continuing, many could have read it, learned from it, and it could have benefitted all in the future.
Not sure if it's because I'm 55 years old, old fashion, and just out of touch with things these day, but in the end, the comments made did not need to be deleted.
All my best!
A comment was made in this post, that I felt was very insensitive. Actually hit a nerve with me, because I have experienced this same type of comment that affected me in another forum.
I made a post indicating that the person may want to possibly consider not making insensitive comments as they did. Didn't get nasty about it, just made the suggestion. A few others agreed. One person made a comment that I thought was more directed in a negative way at that person who posted the comment, so I asked to please not to do so, and that the post made I'm sure wasn't made with negative intent and just made by using a bad choice of words.
My wife and I went to dinner. When I got home, the comments were deleted, including the insensitive comment made by the person in question.
I'm not sure if any other comments were made after my last post, that resulted in this, but the comment by that person, and some following, shouldn't have been deleted. This is ridiculous!
What should have occurred is the person who made the insensitive comment, should have been given the opportunity to apologize that they meant no harm, and that should have been the end of that.
Instead, moderators delete the comments in the post that I feel were warranted and valid. If done my anyone else, it would have been different and we all know that!!!!
I continuously watch people attack each other, and many posts remain. Why in this case was it different? Well, I'm sure those who read the initial post understand why.
Totally unfair! Many of us have complained how this forum has changed, and many good people have left. Unfortunate! But it's situations like this that many get upset about.
If GAMEUSEDINVERSE feels the need to delete this post, then ban me, as I do not want to be a part of a forum that conducts themselves in this manner.
If I am banned, thank you all for the knowledge an experience you have shared with me.
If not for you, I would never have learned that my 1996 Rawlings bat wasn't legit; or I would never have the opportunity to obtain Arod's 1st Career Grand Slam Bat; and so on.
There have been members in the forum who have passed away, and for me, that comment was inappropriate and insensitive! And by that thread continuing, many could have read it, learned from it, and it could have benefitted all in the future.
Not sure if it's because I'm 55 years old, old fashion, and just out of touch with things these day, but in the end, the comments made did not need to be deleted.
All my best!
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