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08-28-2008, 07:22 PM #1
biggest sacrifice??
i was wondering what is the biggest sacrifice anyone has made to continue their collection? anyone out there with 1 kidney (lol)? seriously, what is the one piece you thought you would never part with, but did? do you look back now in regret? did you ever come across that same item for sale again?
mark
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08-28-2008, 11:33 PM #2
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I lost my last GirlFriend because she wanted me to stop Collecting and Move in with her etc.That was a 6 Year Relationship and I picked Collecting over her.
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08-28-2008, 11:39 PM #3
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Les Zukor
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Collecting Jeff Bagwell Cleats, Jerseys, & Other Items
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08-29-2008, 01:02 AM #4
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My ex was an a$$. She wanted me to sell everything. She was a golddigger too; she wanted me to sell a piece I had for $1,500, and she wanted me to give her HALF too. Thank god she's gone. I've been with someone new for 4 months now, and she already told me that she doesn't care if I collect it; and I even asked her, "you don't care if I collect used socks and dirty jerseys?" and she said "I don't care because you like it and I'm not gonna stop you". Talk about amazingkylehess941@hotmail.com
My Game Used Collection:
http://www.wix.com/kylehess941/gameused
http://www.kylehessphotography.com/
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08-29-2008, 05:11 AM #5
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08-29-2008, 06:34 AM #6
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08-29-2008, 08:42 AM #7
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Hmmm, interesting topic. I've been married for 12 years. Wife before marriage went with me to shows and was by my side while I chased autographs. 2 kids later, did I expect that to continue? No, of course not. My collecting has always been very passionate for me. It takes alot of my time as I have a large circle of friends I communicate with.
That said, late last year I had the opportunity to buy many items from my childhood item. I was offered the opportunity to buy the whole thing, asked often why I did not, and my answer is simple - I could have financially but would probably not be married not (afterall we need to evaluate the importance of everything in life, collecting is not #1, my family is). Instead, I took a different road where the items went somewhere else and I was given the chance to buy what I wanted. A few items got away, but it went well. The bad part was hiding purchases from wife. She tripped me up a few times, still is not on board with everything, but I think ultimately she knows it was a once in a lifetime thing.
My first GU jersey was a Kingman 1975 home Mets I bought for $350 in 1988. That jersey was on my wall since then until last March, when I sold it to a longtime friend and Mets collector for $2K to fascillitate the purchase of a home 1973 Giants Kingman jersey. Do I regret it? Not really. It was quality for quality, vintage for vintage. I had the chance oddly enough to buy ANOTHER 75 Mets Kingman and turned it down, so I guess I can live with my choice. As a collector, we have to realize that you can't have it all, even though that is what we feel as our passion is always there.
There were, as I spoke of, 2 or 3 other items that got away. The 2 collectors who have the items know where I am, and I'll always be there if they decide to sell. Now, I'm just trying to figure out the best ways to showcase items. My room is full, and I have to catch the wife in a rare mood where she'll let me have another area, perhaps the office, to hang a jersey, etc. Has not happened yet.........
RK
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08-29-2008, 09:41 AM #8
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The key to being let alone to do your collecting thing - at least in my own case - is choosing a mate who has an even more expensive hobby than your own.
My wife recently qual'ed as a Divemaster, and flies all over the World (she's in Bermuda at the moment, with my daughter) on dive trips.
We'll have been married twenty years in January, and she's never had a bad thing to say about the 800 bats, or any of the rest of it.
When you swim with sharks, I guess you don't have a lot of room to criticize how your significant other spends his money.
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08-29-2008, 09:59 AM #9
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Yeah my Girlfriend now understands and asks questions about my Collecting Habits.She even lets me Display some of these Items on the Walls in our Condo.She lets me have a Corner in the BedRoom for my Game Used Stuff also.She even goes with me when I chase for Autographs sometimes but she really does not care to do that and Calls me a Stalker in a Playful way.
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08-29-2008, 10:13 AM #10
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I think it should only become an issue when you are buying things for your collection that you can't afford, and you do anyway, and it is hurting your family financially.
It's all about choices and how you make them.