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01-07-2010, 01:26 AM #11
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Re: Monthly Pick-Ups Ethical To Mention a Fake Item Posted
I would say yes, I would want to know if I bought something that was Bogus.
The sooner I know, the better, but I only speak for myself. Easy to say it could lead to an argument, or someone may offer an Opinion that may not necessarily be "fact" or True.
"Tie Base goes to the Runner" STEVE, I`m joking...
Sean
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01-07-2010, 01:32 AM #12
Re: Monthly Pick-Ups Ethical To Mention a Fake Item Posted
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01-07-2010, 01:46 AM #13
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Re: Monthly Pick-Ups Ethical To Mention a Fake Item Posted
I wasn't "calling you out". I specifically said I wasn't attacking you, I was merely replying to your comments. Call it a debate, call it gruff constructive criticism. Calling you out? No.
You come off as very hostile. I believe I may be done even trying to talk to you. Sadly, it has to be that way since you clearly are looking for conflict when none is there.
Take care friend.
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01-07-2010, 01:55 AM #14
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01-07-2010, 07:08 AM #15
Re: Monthly Pick-Ups Ethical To Mention a Fake Item Posted
Guys,
No need to fight here. Joba made it clear that he personally does not want to know if he's purchased a fake publically. That's his answer to the question being asked.
Joba
The "mind your own business" angle I don't understand. If one posts items on this forum located on the Internet it's for public consumption and you've just shown your business (as Gilda Radner used to say).
That said lets move on.metsbats86@aol.com
Always looking for 1973,1986,1988,1999,2000,2006 game used Mets post season and Bobby M. Jones and Ed Hearn NY Mets game used bats.
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01-07-2010, 07:37 AM #16
Re: Monthly Pick-Ups Ethical To Mention a Fake Item Posted
+1
I am in favor of e-mailing them, or at least contact them about their item in a polite and professional manner.
Then it can be decided by the parties involved if they feel it should be brought public in order to 'educate' the forum.
We all know that at times this place is like throwing raw steak to the Lions....
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01-07-2010, 08:16 AM #17
Re: Monthly Pick-Ups Ethical To Mention a Fake Item Posted
When Eric first started the Forum and members were posting up new acquisitions it happened from time to time as we sure weren't as educated back then on photo evidence.
I faced the same dilemna about 5 years ago when I noticed a prominent member had a fake jersey. It showed me that anyone can be fooled.
I let him know and gave him concrete proof and he was able to go back to the auction house and get a full refund. He was very appreciative.
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01-07-2010, 08:28 AM #18
Re: Monthly Pick-Ups Ethical To Mention a Fake Item Posted
I think the opinions of members have been muddled based on the way the question was asked....maybe I'm weird and just read it differently.
I read it as "IF YOU HAVE POSTED AN ITEM AND A MEMBER CAN DEFINITIVELY PROVE TO YOU THAT YOUR ITEM IS FAKE, SHOULD YOU TELL THEM?"
This does not say SHOULD YOU POST PUBLICLY ON THE BOARDS AND POTENTIALLY EMBARRASS THEM? If you see something is fake and is a NEW item the person has bought, by all means I think you should contact them PRIVATELY and let them know of your concern and findings. This should be done when you are 100% positive and not on a hunch. Personally, I take every effort of members here as an effort trying to be of assistance and not of trying to embarrass over an item that isnt as expected or as was protrayed prior to purchase.
I understand that some people feel you should let sleeping dogs lie, but I will state as MY PERSONAL OPINION that anyone that can help a member and prove they might have been swindled, is their DUTY as a fellow forum and community member to let them know.
Maybe just start by telling the member, "I have some information on one of your pieces and wanted to know if you were interested." At least make the offer, but dont give it away.
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01-07-2010, 08:39 AM #19
Re: Monthly Pick-Ups Ethical To Mention a Fake Item Posted
I don't really see much harm in publically stating it, plus wouldn't it be useful in case if the forum member tried to sell it to another forum member or elsewhere after knowing it was fake?
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01-07-2010, 09:15 AM #20
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Re: Monthly Pick-Ups Ethical To Mention a Fake Item Posted
I think the real issue is that people feel attacked for posting something when it's authenticity is brought into question. It sometimes seems like some posters act like my students running to me and tattletailing:
"Mr. N, Bobby is a big fat stupid liar with fake toys" and then turning around to Bobby and saying "Nanny Nanny Foo Foo"
I'll write this publicly. If I ever post something and you have questions about it's authenticity, please post them. I find starting a sentance with, "Hey Matt, I don't think your shirt looks right buddy. Let me tell you why" leads me to believe you are more interested in enhancing my collection and keeping me away from those who would sell me bogus stuff than saying "Your crap is bogus garbage, dumbass!"