I had an Ebay auction close the other day and the winning bidder paid me the same night. The shipping rate specfied in the auction was 9.99 but it was for the United States and it indicated this. The buyer lives in Canada. I found this out after he paid me. The item went for about 30% of what I paid for it and I am giving 25% to the Red Cross so I am essentially giving the item away as it is. I do not want to pay towards the shipping as well. How do handle this assuming the buyer refuses to pay more for shipping? I have never had this come up before.