Explaining the hobby to friends and family

[thegoodz15]

Re: Explaining the hobby to friends and family

morning forum, i thought this was a great title and i have been hearing such stories since 1984 why i collect game used uniforms and bats....having one of the largest ollections on the east coast, i start telling people of my first story that in 1990 i traded my 1956 mantle uniform for my first house at the age of 26.......at the time the house was 180k.......today the uniform believe it or not is worth more then the house.....when people come to my home they ae simply in awe from trophies and the hundreds of game used bats i have displayed.....ask any who collects art or baseball memorabila and they will simply tell you....if there is a rembrandt on the wall for 20 million dollars or a mickey mantle game used world series bat.....the bat is will be talked about all evening...in florida i actually do seminars in the 55 and over communities teaching people that its the greatest hobby in the world and one of the greatest investments out performing stocks and real estate.....i get more pleasure looking at my ruth, mantle, munson game used bats that looking at my 3000 shares of a piece paper of microsoft....lol....and when a item that you have sells for hundreds of thousands of dollars....and you own one.....that when you can laugh at friends and family....in closing there are so many people i have met since 1984 that share the same passion i have with the game of baseball and yankees memorabilia.....and i hope to teach this to my daughter charlie who is 15 months old......when family and friends do come over the house kinda makes you feel like a ballplayer or a rock star...lol

happy collecting,
scott m. goodman......"thegoodz15"

[frikativ54]

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Most didn't really care though until my wedding when their groomsman gifts were game worn jerseys from their favorite teams. Suddenly, my collection seemed a lot more interesting.......

LOL! That's a funny story.

[gingi79]

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My friends are impressed when it is a player or team they root for. Then they want to touch and have questions about how I got it and such.

Most didn't really care though until my wedding when their groomsman gifts were game worn jerseys from their favorite teams. Suddenly, my collection seemed a lot more interesting.......

[frikativ54]

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My brothers used to constantly ridicule my involvement in the hobby, until they saw that I was gaining fame and notoriety in the hobby, even if I wasn't getting independently wealthy in the process.

I didn't realize that you were famous in the hobby, Dave.

I'm not sure what either one of them would think now...we haven't spoken in 17 years and I really don't give a rat's rearend what they think.

Wow - Sorry to hear that, Dave. That must be rough.

[frikativ54]

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While my Dad thinks I have enough memorabilia, my Mom is pretty understanding. She will on occasion buy something game used for me, or if I am desperate for something, loan me the money. Recently, after she loaned me money for an item, I showed her video of the player wearing it, and she thought it was really cool. Likewise, after I explain my passion for a certain item and the story behind it, she has an appreciation too. Her attitude is at least I'm not spending the money on beer or drugs and everyone spends money on some hobby. We are live and let live.

[Manram]

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One I get a lot is how do you know the player actually used it? Then when you try to explain companies like PSA and mlb authentication they don't get it............

[yankees506]

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Im not out in the public with my collection as i am semi-private but the few people ive let in my world have either one of 2 reactions.

1. Couldnt care less (no worries here )

2. Think is cool but over the top, the "this looks like a museum" comment is one that catches me by surprise everytime (i dont see it that way at all).

When people ask me "why" i simply say, "i have nothing better to do and i think its cool". My family only cares that it makes me happy, now if i could only explain to the old gf why we need to take our pictures down for my new cano bat

[UTeric3232]

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Ya, my wife is about the only one who gets it....

But even she gives me the "Oh great, another jersey thats just going to crowd the closet" type of comments once in a while.

[sox83cubs84]

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My wife and in-laws don't fully understand it, although they respect it. So did my father, when he was alive, as we often would do local shows together in the 1980s.

My brothers used to constantly ridicule my involvement in the hobby, until they saw that I was gaining fame and notoriety in the hobby, even if I wasn't getting independently wealthy in the process. I'm not sure what either one of them would think now...we haven't spoken in 17 years and I really don't give a rat's rearend what they think.

Dave Miedema

[maverick14]

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I normally get the following responses;

1. You collect what?

2. Who the hell is Austin Jackson?

3. Are you joking about having a website for your Austin Jackson crap?

NOBODY understands me.

haha, this post gave me a good laugh........you have an awesome collection though and we understand

[Dach0sen0ne]

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I normally get the following responses;

1. You collect what?

2. Who the hell is Austin Jackson?

3. Are you joking about having a website for your Austin Jackson crap?

NOBODY understands me.

[MLB~NUT]

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I usually get most friends and family who think its cool when I get a new game jersey or bat, even a ball most get it, the ones that don't I don't bother trying to explain it to....

Todd Vernon

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[masp3392]

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I got hit with the "why are you buying something your never going to wear or use" question from my girlfriend the other day. She's never collected anything throughout her life so far so she doesn't understand the concept of "collecting".

Even through all that she knows im a die hard hurricanes fan and understands that It's my hobby but can't understand why these items are so darn expensive. ( I cant either )

[flota89]

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I don't really talk about it with any of my friends of family. Those who do know don't really get it though. That seems weird to me. I don't get how people can spend $50 a week for cigarettes or go shopping every other weekend and it be "normal" but it is. But when you spend $200 on a bat that you could resell for the same value if needed it's just weird.

In my opinion, some people just don't really get the whole having a hobby thing.

[Shipp_96]

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Everyone i try and explain it to doesnt get it.

And if they do get it, they really dont understand the significance of everything.

Then there are the friends who are afraid to touch the items, that cracks me up.

My wife actually understands i think more than anyone else, because she knows how much i like the brewers.

Same goes for me. My wife is the only one that "gets" it, but even then she is always asking "Really? $300 for that so it can hang in a closet, and no one but you will ever see it again or even know you own it?" But she understands the significance, and when I have sold old pieces to get new ones she also sees there is a value to it. My opinion is she knows I love sports and get joy out of it, so that is all that matters to her. Plus, she used to go to autograph shows with me even when we dated. So the collecting sports memorabilia thing is not new to her.

My co-workers think I'm "odd", and just don't get it. I would venture to say even fellow Penn State alums really do not "get" my collection, even if they think it's cool I own Tambi Hali's worn cleats. I had two co-workers when I worked in DC that got it, and loved my collection and how I had it displayed. They thought it was very cool, but of course were themselves collectors. If my parents or Aunts and Uncles ever knew what I spend on this stuff they would think I was just crazy. Or weird, but they have always thought I was the "different" one.