The thin line between hoarding and collecting

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  • Dach0sen0ne
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    Re: Difference between hoarding & collecting

    Originally posted by frikativ54
    I don't think it matters whether they are common players or not. Having over ten bats of the same player from the same season - superstar or not - means that you are a hoarder. Sometimes people on the forum post photographs of their lumber, and I have to wonder what drives that sort of obsession.
    I'm not sure why you need to label anyone because they have more than a certain number of bats that "you" think is acceptable. I guess I missed the 10 bat cutoff limit in the player collectors handbook.

    Originally posted by frikativ54
    Why can't people share? Are they like adult kids who are insecure that somebody else may have access to their toys? Are they so possessive that they need every bat a player used in a given season? Is it an issue of needing absolute control of the market?
    I'd be more than happy to help anyone acquire an Austin Jackson item, but I control the market and the prices are going to be very high. I've only had a few people ever ask about buying a Jackson bat and I was more than happy to help those people out. Sharing is caring.

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  • solarlottry
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    I think that if you collect what you like then go for it!

    If I want 20 Steve Young shirts and I can afford it why cant I expand the collection? Am I a hoarder because I like to collect that many Steve Young shirts?

    Now there are times when sharing is in order especially when friendships and relationships are taken into account. Also when a certain jersey greatly enhances another collectors collection but just adds another shirt to mine, then I will let it go. With that being said I would expect goodwill in return from the people involved.

    I think this hobby can be fun if WE keep it that way and never get too greedy! Friendships and the ability to share what you have with other fans and collectors is what makes this hobby even more fun for me and by allowing some items to go to other collectors with similar interests only benefits us all.

    Now if an item pops up that is special-a Steve Young playoff shirt or a jersey from a year I have been looking for then I will try and work something out with the other collectors I know before a bidding war ensues. Sometimes there is an item that just must be added though but thankfully those are few and far between!

    Always buying 49ers gamers!
    Paul
    garciajones@yahoo.com

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  • MarinersFan34
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    Lol, I can imagine the Halper collection(no need to stray off on the authenticity here) but just the amount of items he had, and dump them on the floor all over the house. Oh man, having to walk on top of it, ruining stuff, breaking things I'm sure. It'd be a sad day to see that but I agree it'd be neat to see the treasures uncovered.


    Over the years players use so many bats, jerseys, sticks, etc. that there should be plenty to go around for everyone, sometimes it just takes years of patience.

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  • gingi79
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    Originally posted by MarinersFan34
    The only time would be perhaps if their house resembled that of those profiled on the show "Hoarders: Buried Alive" and replace the "stuff" with game used items. When you have so much you have to walk on top of it to get around, then yeah you're a hoarder.
    I'd replace "hoarder" with "epic and awe inspiring" I am sorry if it makes me sound like less of the philosophical genius I normally am on this board but I would LOVE to see an episode of Hoarders: Buried Alive with thousands of untold and buried treasures of the game worn world. In fact, I'd rent a van gather up all of my friends from this board and go to their home with the intent of helping them unclutter their homes while increasing the clutter in about a hundred of ours.

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  • dcgreg25
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    Originally posted by MarinersFan34

    Collect what you want and care less about what others might think of you, just enjoy the hobby!
    Jeremy, well said. I could not have put it better myself. (says the guy with a few significant player collections).

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  • gingi79
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    Originally posted by frikativ54
    The problem with this reasoning is that it assumes that all of a player's bats are available for purchase. Truth is that no matter how many bats are used, only a fraction of those make it out to collectors. Some are discarded, some are cracked so badly that they aren't even offered, and many are kept by the players and their relatives. Assume that the teams keep several, which they most likely do, and you are left with not too many bats left for collectors.

    If a player collector starts buying over ten bats per player per year, there simply aren't enough bats for everyone who wants one to enjoy having one. As a result, many of the people who would be thrilled with just one bat don't end up even being to obtain them. This is all as a result of hoarding, which in all honesty, does not impress me like honest collecting does. Just remember that every bat you hoard is a bat that someone else is missing out on.
    Les I respect this opinion and understand what you are saying. I respectively disagree that if my focus is obtaining all the bats I can (and I am not even a bat collector, just using the analogy) of my favorite player than why should I care about what others are collecting? If we both want a Bagwell bat and I never owned one, what right do I have to say to you "Look Les, you already have Bagwell stuff, you should just let me buy this one." It's part of free market economics to say everyone has the same shot at something whether they own 1 or 1000 of them already.

    I'm not looking to fight just wanted to continue what I see as a very healthy debate and discussion.

    If you don't mind me asking, has this happened to you? Is there some collector hoarding Bagwell stuff? You just seem to have a very personal response and I am wondering of it is coming from personal experience and if so, I understand exactly why you feel this way. You don't have to answer, just wondering.

    Originally posted by cliffjmp33
    And I hope our mentioning of Matt Diaz's bats only help increase their worth for collectors!
    I really hope to one day meet him and have him sign my bat. I am proud to own his pink Mothers Day bat as my own mother's ancestry has many women who suffered and died from Breast Cancer. It's already priceless to me. However, I agree his bats should be worth and selling for so much more than they are but I am a biased hoarder.

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  • MarinersFan34
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    The difference.. is how you want to judge and label that person.

    Do we really need to start doing that? Honestly who cares what you collect and why would anyone here care what someone else thinks of what they collect?

    I wouldn't label anyone here a hoarder because I have no need or desire to start judging collections and labeling them.

    The only time would be perhaps if their house resembled that of those profiled on the show "Hoarders: Buried Alive" and replace the "stuff" with game used items. When you have so much you have to walk on top of it to get around, then yeah you're a hoarder.

    Also, who cares about monetary value either, other than another way to judge someone and what their collect might be worth on the secondary market. One of the guys I collect is Sexson, his stuff has very little market value but because I'm a big fan, I should only buy 1 unique item and stick with that? So I can make someone else happy that they can't label me a hoarder? If I have the expendable cash to buy it or win it at auction, it's fair game and it's mine if I choose.

    Is it the value of the player that is the problem? If I owned 10 Sexson bats (50 total) from his last 5 seasons, will anyone care or even notice? If I owned 10 Pujols bats (50 total) from his last 5 seasons, I'm a greedy hoarder?

    Can it be frustrating that others have multiples of a bat or jersey I want while I haven't seen others for sale, I guess so. If I start to take the hobby so seriously that I get angry or have to label that person, I need to walk away cause it's not a fun hobby anymore.

    Collect what you want and care less about what others might think of you, just enjoy the hobby!

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  • frikativ54
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    Originally posted by gingi79
    The sheer number of bats used per player per season must be near 150 or more. Even a 4 season player would use over 600 bats. Superstar players like Derek Jeter over his 16 seasons using only 100 bats a season would have gone through 1600 bats. Puts a guy with say 100 of them or 1/16th of them in perspective, doesn't it?
    The problem with this reasoning is that it assumes that all of a player's bats are available for purchase. Truth is that no matter how many bats are used, only a fraction of those make it out to collectors. Some are discarded, some are cracked so badly that they aren't even offered, and many are kept by the players and their relatives. Assume that the teams keep several, which they most likely do, and you are left with not too many bats left for collectors.

    If a player collector starts buying over ten bats per player per year, there simply aren't enough bats for everyone who wants one to enjoy having one. As a result, many of the people who would be thrilled with just one bat don't end up even being to obtain them. This is all as a result of hoarding, which in all honesty, does not impress me like honest collecting does. Just remember that every bat you hoard is a bat that someone else is missing out on.

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  • cliffjmp33
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    This is a tough one as I think to each their own in a sense. And as I remember reading when I first joined, we should collect what we like. And if that is 10 Matt Diaz bats, so be it.

    However, if you're living outside your means and put buying a Matt Diaz bat that has no real meaning to you other than "I want it", but can't pay your utilities or such, then it becomes a problem in my eyes.

    Personally, I have about a dozen items in my collection and don't see it expanding a ton. If I am going to add, it's going to have some sentiment for me. I may have to part with certain items to obtain others, but I want to be able to have heat in the winter instead of freezing and staring at an NFL football.

    And I hope our mentioning of Matt Diaz's bats only help increase their worth for collectors!

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  • kprst6
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    Originally posted by gingi79
    We all marvel at the collectors who have diverse collections of the same player and admire their length and breadth. Why is being so focused on one item from that player any different or less impressive?
    If you had 10 Matt Diaz bats from the same season, none of which were anything special (milestone bat, home-run bat, playoff bat, all star bat etc), I would argue that they were all basically the same common bat and wouldn't want to look at all 10 of them because once you've seen 1 common 2010 Matt Diaz bat, you've seen them all.

    If you had 1 bat from each season for 10 seasons, I would be much more interested in each bat individually than seeing 10 bats from the same season. At some point, the nostalgia is lost when you see how easy an item is to obtain and you see multiples of the same thing.

    If you are literally able to obtain every single jersey worn by a player, I would argue the value would decrease simply because no one cared enough about that player to keep the item. There is a huge difference between an item being rare because they just don't exist in the market like a Troy Polamalu game used jersey, vs an artificial lack of availability because 1 person bought every single item. If you are the only person willing to hold on and collect a particular players items, then that means there is little to no market for that player and are probably worth more as kindling for a fire. To you, the collection might be worth $2,500 a jersey, but to everyone else, they probably wouldn't pay $100.00 per jersey.

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  • gingi79
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    Originally posted by frikativ54
    I don't think it matters whether they are common players or not. Having over ten bats of the same player from the same season - superstar or not - means that you are a hoarder. Sometimes people on the forum post photographs of their lumber, and I have to wonder what drives that sort of obsession.

    Why can't people share? Are they like adult kids who are insecure that somebody else may have access to their toys? Are they so possessive that they need every bat a player used in a given season? Is it an issue of needing absolute control of the market?

    I definitely understand wanting a bat from a guy's every year in the big leagues. It's cool to collect different styles of game used stuff. But it just seems really selfish to accumulate over ten of the same bat of the same player from the same season.

    It always amazes me that collectors can feel this way. If someone collects a player and wants to add as many bats as possible than why is that bad? It doesn't have to be a devious undertaking or a desire to control the inventory and therefore pricing. The sheer number of bats used per player per season must be near 150 or more. Even a 4 season player would use over 600 bats. Superstar players like Derek Jeter over his 16 seasons using only 100 bats a season would have gone through 1600 bats. Puts a guy with say 100 of them or 1/16th of them in perspective, doesn't it?

    I tried and continue to try to limit my collection to Sami Salo and Matt Diaz. I have picked up a few others for reasons as intelligent as "He was my dad's favorite player" to dumb and wasteful:"Hang it on the wall as a Super Bowl decoration" I hope to have every style jersey each wore. If I can do that (and odds are I can't as some are locked away in team set collections,) I'll switch to adding special patched shirts. The odds are, I may own every Devil Rays jersey Diaz ever wore and technically I could then say they are worth $2500 each. Since no others will ever be for sale, (including mine but I digress) does that constitute hoarding? Of course not, I am just a collector.

    We all marvel at the collectors who have diverse collections of the same player and admire their length and breadth. Why is being so focused on one item from that player any different or less impressive?

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  • jake33
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    To me, if I cannot display it and have to put it in storage or in a box, I don't want it. I hate clutter and have mountains of stuff makes it looks like a joke. All i get is game used. I don't buy retail memorabilia. To me game used is the only way to go, everything else is junk. But I know many sports fans & collectors view it the other way around.

    The best thing to do i pre-set parameters and stick to those no matter what. Every month, I can say i find items that are out of my collection scope. All I have toa sk myself is , "Wow, this Bengals jersey would look awful next to the $6,000 in buccaneers game used items I have." It doesn't make sense to have items out of the main concept of your collection. Stick to what your scope is, make a "dream" want list, then a realistic want list and actually plan on where and how you would display it.

    I always am amazed how people jsut want to collect "game used jerseys" from any team or league or year. Then you are filling the never ending bottomless pit of hoarding and you will never be satisfied.

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  • frikativ54
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    Originally posted by kprst6
    Does owning 10 bats/sticks for the same player, from the same season, for multiple seasons make you a hoarder if they are all lower level "common" players?
    I don't think it matters whether they are common players or not. Having over ten bats of the same player from the same season - superstar or not - means that you are a hoarder. Sometimes people on the forum post photographs of their lumber, and I have to wonder what drives that sort of obsession.

    Why can't people share? Are they like adult kids who are insecure that somebody else may have access to their toys? Are they so possessive that they need every bat a player used in a given season? Is it an issue of needing absolute control of the market?

    I definitely understand wanting a bat from a guy's every year in the big leagues. It's cool to collect different styles of game used stuff. But it just seems really selfish to accumulate over ten of the same bat of the same player from the same season.

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  • otismalibu
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    In my opinion, having too many items especially of the same player, detracts from your collection.
    Some people just collect certain players, some HOFers, some common players. I don't think it detracts from the collection.

    I realize it's tough to display everything, but if you have boxes of stuff and you don't even remember what's inside, then you're flirting with hoarding, IMO.

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  • kprst6
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    Difference between hoarding & collecting

    I know some of you out there are hardcore and have 100's to 1000's of articles of memorabilia. At what point are you no longer considered a collector and become more of a hoarder?

    Are you a hoarder when you pick up a piece of memorabilia just because you got a good deal and could care less about the item?

    Does owning 10 bats/sticks for the same player, from the same season, for multiple seasons make you a hoarder if they are all lower level "common" players?

    In my opinion, having too many items especially of the same player, detracts from your collection.

    I'm just curious what everyone's opinion is on this subject.

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